Ngokusuka kumava am ndiyaqinisekisa. ukuba abafazi abatyebileyo bakhululekile kakhulu kwaye bahlambalaza kunabo bancinci, kunye neefom zabo ezinqabileyo bayaqonda ukuba indoda idinga umgudu ongakumbi wokwanelisa, ngoko bazama ukukholisa indoda ngesondo kuyo yonke into.
Intombazana yavuthela umfana kuba engakwazi ukumanga okanye ukujola. Useyintombi nto. Ngoko umama ulungile - intombi kufuneka incedise umnakwabo ukuba abe yindoda. Kwaye umama ebengayi kumnqwenelela nto imbi. Ngethamsanqa umntwana unabazali abahambele phambili ngolo hlobo.